July 1st, 2005


weekend un-plans -- anybody got an idea?

So it's July 1, the start of a 3-day weekend, and I have no definite plans. This is very unusual for me for a holiday weekend, and even more so for *this* holiday weekend, and I'm feeling exceedingly conscious of my lack of regular social contacts beyond a very small circle, and my current romantic singleness.

There are a couple of special-interest parties (scene and sexual play) on Saturday and Sunday that require RSVPs and contributions for facilities and optimally some like-minded company which I have only really started feeling any motivation toward attending, but have no likely companions, and far less motivation to attend solo.

There's a random July 4 party I may go to Monday, which does tie back to a larger circle I've been meaning to reconnect with, and will probably go to for some time.

And there's lots of packing and moving I could do, which will really suck to do solo, and which is currently most likely to get most of my mediocre attention and focus Saturday and Sunday.

So -- if you're motivated to join me for any or all of the above (especially the RSVP parties, with which hosts I'm now checking to ensure there's room for at least 2 more), or if you have something fun that will motivate me to accomplish stuff here before joining you -- please call, email, IM, send up a flare.... If you have no plans for the weekend, either, this could become a hang out with Ted at the soon-to-be-former Homeport weekend. Company while I pack and such, even if all you do is sit and chat and laugh at what I'm choosing to save and/or toss, is more than helpful. There's crash space, a hot-tub, a big room of AC, and easily accessible tasty snacks and adult beverages.

I'll be stepping out for a bit, now, to see if I can get new tires for a trailer -- so please don't be hurt if you don't hear back instantly -- but please leave me enough info to track you down, especially if your idea is something for tonight.

this could be interesting.

1. Reply with your name and I will write something about you.
2. I will then tell what song/movie remind me of you.
3. I will tell you something I'd like to do with you. Possibly involving Jell-O, possibly not....
4. I will say something that only makes sense to you and me.
5. I will tell you my first memory of you.
6. I will tell you what animal you remind me of.
7. I'll then tell you something that I've always wondered about you.
8. Put this in your journal, or else! Yeah, else.

keys to my heart? or something

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to good manners and elegance.

In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored.

You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was ruthless, cold-blooded, and sarcastic.

Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.

In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily.